Be confident.

There’s lots of advice on how to gain confidence out there. That isn’t what this blog is about. You won’t find such tips here. If that’s what you’re looking for, I suggest you search for advice on how to raise your self-esteem. But if you’ve seen my welcome post, Rule #1 inspires an implied tip on how to gain confidence: dress the part.

You can inspire confidence by dressing as if you feel like the sexiest woman in the room. Even just acting that way can be enough to convince others that you really are confident, sexy, and beautiful. Confidence is key in being a seductive woman, and lingerie can play a huge part in this.

While lingerie is typically reserved for sex play, you don’t need to get frisky to enjoy the benefits of some sexy lingerie. Wearing a nice set beneath your clothes can make you feel confident and bold. It might even dare you to do or say things you might not otherwise say (that is, in conversations with a man you’re interested in). If those conversations go anywhere from that, well, look — you’re already dressed the part.

Sexy lingerie can vary from one piece lingerie (like a teddy or a bodysuit) to a bra and panty set (garters optional). We won’t discuss corsets right now, but those are on the table too.

Are you a businesswoman or a would-be business woman? Wear sexy underwear beneath your trousers. You might just experience a sense of sexual power.

Looking to flirt? Any lingerie works beneath a dress or skirt. Teddies are best reserved for dresses that reach at least thigh-length. You’ll offer the opportunity to sneak a peek (and be aware of the risk), but you won’t have to fear that anyone’s actually catching a glimpse (unless you intend it).

And don’t forget to treat yourself with a piece of Erotic Lingerie or Elegant Lingerie coupled with a body harness fashion lingerie or body chain fashion lingerie!

Consider the type of lingerie suited to your body and pair it with like outfits. Future posts will explore this idea in more detail but, if you have any comments or experiences with this, feel free to share.